Sunday, September 30, 2012

WCPD: The Importance Of Socially Aware and Well Trained Cops In Law Enforcement for Women and Children's Concern

As-Salamu Alaykum. Peace be upon you.

I am very grateful for the invitation extended to me to be the guest of honor in your 10 day training for Women and Children Protection Desk Officers closing ceremonies.

I am always happy when the Philippine National Police invites me to speak in any of your trainings. Attributed perhaps to the fact that I am the wife of a policeman. And also because I have always always believed that an intelligent and socially aware police force is an asset of the nation.

I am extremely happy more so in this occasion to speak in front of you because you have just recently finished a training that specifically gears you to become better police officers particularly on women and children’s concerns.

The trainings that you just so recently finished is important. “The 2008 National Demographic and Health Survey (NDHS) posited the following statistics that:

    • one in five women aged 15-49 has experienced physical violence since age 15;

    • (37%) of separated or widowed women have experienced physical violence,

    • one in twenty five women age 15-49 who have ever had sex  experienced forced first sexual intercourse;

    • in 2010 the number of VAW cases reported to the Philippine National Police (PNP) rose by 59.2 percent from the 2009 report.”#

In an article published in bulatlat.com# a left leaning on-line publication it stated that “one child is raped every two hours and 30 minutes,” and that “one child becomes a victim of sexual harassment every seven hours.” The author further wrote that in January 2000 to August 2011 some 500,000 women fell victim to prostitution and 100,000 of these victims were children.
       
These grim statistics tells us how pressing and urgent is the need to have an effective and efficient response to the situation faced by every Filipina woman and her child.

These is where our well equipped and well trained police force comes in. Your participation in the ten day training tells me that you are the frontliners of your police station or your unit when it comes to women and children’s issues.

I Googled  your training module and I found out that it includes gender sensitivity, specialized investigation techniques and basic orientation on laws involving women and children.

I am impressed with the content. It gave me hope that no matter how depressing the statistics are, there are police officers like you who are trained to respond to these specific problems.

I am more so hopeful that we have numerous laws that protect our women and children like the Anti-Rape Law of 1997, the Rape Victim Assistance and Protection Act of 1998, Anti-Trafficking in Persons Act of 2003, The Special Protection of Children Against Child Abuse, Exploitation and Discrimination , The Anti-Violence Against Women and Their Children Act and the Magna Carta Of Women.

I can go on and on about the numerous laws and rules that protect our women and children but without a highly trained police force to enforce them, all these laws will amount to nothing.

That is how important your ten day training was and I hope that what you have learned here you will bring back to your “tropa” and enforce and implement them correctly.

I can speak more about children, women and heck even about loving a policeman but I would already be taking up your time and I know that you are tired and raring to go home so I will end these speech with a thank you for the invitation and a reminder that no matter how unrecognized and only the bad cops are featured in the news most of the time we know that in the past ten days you have been a party to a training that would mean a lot in improving the plight of women and children. Congratulations and God Speed*


Speech given as guest of honor for the closing ceremony of the Specialized Course for WCPD Officers.

Sources: http://pcw.gov.ph/statistics/201205/statistics-violence-against-filipino-women
http://bulatlat.com/main/2012/03/09/statistics-on-various-crimes-against-women-alarming-%E2%80%93-cwr/

Sunday, September 2, 2012

Separate Ways

One of the frequently asked questions that I get in the radio is  this:

"Atty. me and my husband had been separated for more than 7 years now. He has a new partner and I have a new partner as well. Can I marry my new partner and can my husband still sue me?"

I usually answer this way:

"I understand your predicament. Love was lost a long time ago. The partner that you have is more of your husband than the one that you married a long time ago. In the eyes of our law however, you and your husband are still married and he can still sue you.

Our law here in the Philippines provides that a person who is married can only remarry if:

1. His husband or wife died.

2. The married person filed a petition for declaration of absolute nullity of void marriage and the said petition was granted.

3. The married person filed a petition for annulment of voidable marriage and the said petition was granted.

4. The couples are Muslims and they were divorced.

and

5. The married person filed a petition for declaration of presumptive death and said petition was granted.

All these, except death of the other spouse requires court proceedings both civil or in the Shariah court.

The point that I want to emphasize is that mere absence or distance without a proceeding will not dissolve the marriage. In order for the marriage bond to be dissolved the State must interfere. 

As to whether he can sue you, the answer is yes and the case would be adultery. "

I usually elaborate further but that would be for another blog.

For those who wan to know more. Here is the link for the rules on annulment and declaration of absolute nullity of marriage. Click here.